Apr/100
We Aren’t What We Do. We Should Do What We Are.

At the PSFK Conference 2010, Erik Proulx, creator, executive producer, and writer of the short film Lemonade, as well as the founder of Please Feed the Animals, spoke in front of the large crowd at the Museum of Jewish Heritage. It goes without saying that all of the speakers were inspiring, forcing ideas to spark off in my mind. But after hearing Proulx speak, and watching Lemonade during the lunch break (also available on DVD and through Hulu), a swirl of emotions stirred inside me.
He didn’t speak about a new technological advancement; or acknowledge some growing trend that marketers should heed. He spoke about something so basic in nature, that I think its simplicity has been lost: doing what you love. The film Lemonade is a nice accompaniment to Proulx’s Please Feed the Animals website; a blog for members of the advertising community who have lost their job to vent and look for a new one at the on-site job board.
The film highlights a number of former advertising executives who lost their jobs over the last year or so, and the moment of clarity they had afterwards that convinced them to uncover and take up the things they forgot they loved.
The title of this post is a quote that Proulx shared during his presentation and was something that really stuck with me. I look at my friends and family members’ lives and I wonder if they’re really doing what it is they love. My father wanted to be a marine biologist when he was younger. He affirms to me that he enjoys his job enough, but is “enough” adequate? I think of one of my best friends, who went from dreams about being a music producer to pulling all-nighters at a local Trader Joe’s. I’ve been fortunate enough to land a job, doing more or less exactly what I wanted to do with my life. I couldn’t be happier to be honest.
I wanted to promote Lemonade because it reminded me of something that I think people tend to forget, or think of lightly: do what you love. It wasn’t long ago that Greg (Verdino) told me that he actually wanted to work in the music business. There’s nothing wrong with doing what you’re good at (he happens to be good at marketing), but I challenge him to pick music back up again. Even if it’s something he only does on the weekend. In fact, I challenge you all to do the same.
Dig deep down inside yourself. Write down all the things that make you happy. All the things you’re passionate about. And find a way to fit it into your life. One of the women in the film, Michelle Pfennighaus, made the apt point that you don’t have to quit your job to make a profound change in your life. Whether it’s home-brewing coffee, practicing yoga, or painting, take a step back and do something for yourself. Find out whatever it is that makes you smile, and hold on to it; because it’s easy to lose yourself.
Aug/091
Have Marketers Lost Their Individuality?
I was going to write a post about an important tip if you’re building an iPhone application, but I think I’ll hold that off for a later date. Instead, let me share something that has certainly come to bother me: becoming a standardized marketer. And it’s not for all of the reasons you may think.
If you’ve read my About Me page, you can see that I’m not a fan of the self-righteous, and am afraid of it happening to myself. But that’s not where it ends. Some time ago, I came across a website many of you may be familiar with: Things Marketing People Love. I thought the site was so funny, I emailed the creator, Heron Preston, thanking him for it.
The reason why it’s so amusing is because just about everything in it is true, and that’s because (I’d imagine) all of the submissions are from marketing people themselves. Marketers do love “the elephant in the room,” “taking a stab at it,” saying “divide and conquer,” “fleshing out ideas,” “brain dumps,” “ending emails with ‘thoughts?’,” and “getting your ducks in a row.” So much, in fact, that it annoys me that I have to call myself one. Are we really so predictable? How can we guide others’ behavior when it’s so easy to anticipate our own?
I stand by the notion that no idea’s original. But I do believe you can be different; and that’s what I want for myself.
Over the past 2+ years I must have heard just about every phrase and seen every behavior that TMPL lists off. That we can be read like a book so easily makes me uncomfortable. It makes me feel like we’re not being ourselves; like we’ve just become a collection of plaid shirts and catchphrases. Many of us have been trained to speak the lingo. Are there any of us out there who refuse to assimilate in an attempt hold onto that shred of their individuality that made them unique; that person who existed before they got into this business?
That’s one thing that terrifies me: losing myself. If you have to ask the question “why do you think that?”, then it’s probably too late for you. You’ve already been borgified.
TMPL is a testament to the fact that as much as we like to believe we’re masters of the universe, anticipating consumer behavior, and packaging “individuality” as a false purchasing pretense, we ourselves have lost our own individuality. We’re no better than the markets we segment in our strategic plans; perhaps even more predictable.
We like to believe that the way we dress and act in the office is so different from past business generations. But if we’re all doing it, how different are we from each other? If you’ve already lost yourself, was it really worth it, and what are you going to do to take your life back?


This post is more so a raw and unrefined observation/opinion of mine, rather than a picking apart of the two services. For some time I’ve wanted to write a blog post about how Facebook has become the new mass media, or how Twitter has seemingly morphed to a medium, but I think it’s probably even smarter to discuss the ubiquity of these two services as it encompasses both topics.